Beginning therapy is like making a New Year’s resolution. In setting the appointment, you establish intention. The therapeutic relationship that develops in sessions is a very important component of progress. But follow through is equally important.
Confronting Crunch Time
The Finish Line is In Sight
Committing to Remote Work
Positive Regard for Your Co-Parent
The Gray Divorce Trend
Rates of divorce have been doubling in age groups above age 54. Gray divorcees, or so-called “silver splitters” or “diamond splitters,” may have spent quite a number of years together prior to the divorce. In these late life separations, emotional well-being and finances may be negatively impacted to such an extent that one or both partners never fully recover.
The Ex
Sometimes following separation there is a hurdle in beginning to use the term, “The Ex,” when referring to your former husband or wife. There may be a journey towards speaking these words aloud, with support coming from colleagues, friends, family - even strangers - who have walked the path of separation before you.
Separating from the House
Letting go of the family home is hard. The home that you and your ex made when you were together is a symbol of the hopes and dreams that you had for the marriage and your family life together – happily ever after, until death do us part. Grieving the loss of these hopes and dreams is a huge part of the emotional recovery following a separation or divorce.
